This article was last updated on April 29, 2022
Why am I not Successful?
How many times have you heard the question – Why am I not successful or asked yourself ? Is it really hard to be successful, yes it is and it takes time. Most of the people don’t try to be successful and that’s good, because that means if you want to be , you have less competition. People always find excuses, blame their family, friends, life or luck but they really never blame themselves. Because if you want to change something, first you must change yourself. ” Why am I not successful? ” Is a question asked by many but answered by few.
So Why am I not successful?
Now what do you have to do first. First you have to know exactly what do you want, either to be the best basketball player or the best teacher in the world, but you have to know exactly what you want to be, because most people don’t know what they want to be and even if they do they are not working towards it and they don’t get it in the end.
Unsuccessful people always find excuses and they always quit too early, but people that want to be successful they never quit. Now you might not be successful, because you don’t have a plan. Creating a plan is one of the most important things in order to succeed. Visualize it and that after you have made the plan, take action.
And whenever things don’t work out don’t quit, just try one more time. A successful person is someone who gets up 8 times, when he has been knocked up 7. There are 2 options towards being successful you can either win, or you can either learn. Learn from your failures and let them be your lesson, as you move towards your goal. Envision your success, set up daily or weekly goals and one more thing you could do is to add some positive pressure – Tell your friends family that let’s say in 2 years you will be the best father or the best mother or the best teacher or the best football player. Now this will put some pressure towards onto you and pressure is good, you will know that there is something to prove to the people care about.
Many people are not successful because they keep connecting with the wrong people, people that demotivate them, people that just drag them down. If you want to be successful you have to get rid of such people. So to be successful set up a goal and find the people who can help you.
The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.
A famous quote from Jim Rohn is “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with”. As humans we unconsciously are affected by our closest of friends and family members. After that being said, make sure whoever you hang out with and spend your time, is a good benefit to your own growth. Cut off the connections with the people who drag you down.
To be successful one must be persistent.
You might ask again “Why am I not successful?” – But let me tell you that if you are not persistent if you always quit too early than probably that’s why. Now probably the most important advice I could give you is to be persistent, the ones who succeed are the ones who persevere when others quit. Never give up on your dreams, no matter what guys, we live once, so chase your dreams, love as much as you can and laugh as much as you can.
And the most important thing – What are you going to do now ?
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